PEACE . LOVE . LISHA (:: i made it this far . .

DEFINITELY not gunna turn back now [ ♥ ]good evening ladies & gents . today has been a very long day . . so i decided to wind down with a little bit of blogging about some things on the brain . for starters . . i do have a new love interest [ ♥ ] . . we've known each other for a while & to my knowledge he's been feeling me for a while & i'm finally gunna give him a chance . but for now we'll keep his name on the hush hush . he's a pretty cool cat though . trust me .

but on to what i really wanted to blog about today goes out to all the ladies . . & the guys can take a lot from this too . i'll admit, i sleep on the fellas & dog them a lot . so i'll put a lil blame on the girls in this situation too . but here goes . . LADIES, we too often put wayyy too much of our trust in men [ boys ] . we immediately fall into their lies & into their bs . trust me . . i know . i'm a victim of it & i've done it many times . they tell us they're gunna be there forever knowing that they don't plan on being there more than a few weeks . that they love us . . when they wouldn't know love if it was looking them in the face . & i hate the naivety that some girls have for it . i see it everyday . ladies, you HAVE to know the signs . & how to react in these situations .

situation 1 - 'i love you' : first off, if he tells you he loves you & you guys have been together a month tops, he doesn't mean it . no real man can really love you that fast . it's more than likely it's just lust .
what you should do : DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT FEED INTO IT ! for one, you really don't love him, you're just saying it because he's saying it & 9 times outta 10 he doesn't mean it either . if you do say it & things end up not working out, you'll be the one hurt & he'll be fine living his life happily . so be veryy careful .
situation 2 - 'i wunna be with you forever' : at our age, none of us know what we really want outta life . we're still young & we're still figuring ourselves out . so we can not really determine who we wunna be with forever . especially boys, they have the hardest time figuring out what they want out of life period .
what you should do : just let him know that you're still young & you want to take things slow . that you're not looking for you lifetime partner just yet . but you would like you & him to last . that way the next week when you guys are broken up, it won't be that bad .

FELLAS : what you guys need to do is stop feeding females these lines just to get what you want . i respect a guy soo much more if he just tells me off top what he wants . now if it's just sex, he's not gunna get that anyways & i tell him to exit to the left because he's been dismissed . but the point is a girl will have so much more respect for you just being honest, up front, & real . that's all i ask for in a guy . is that he just be real with me & i'll be real with him . when the trust barrier is ~~broken~~, there really is much left to the relationship & something had the potential to be something great is now ruined . so if there is a 'special' girl in your life . .let her know what's really up & how you really feel . i know we as females tend to get too attached or too clingy, but don't do things to provoke or prolong it . try your best to cut it out right away to avoid the drama that comes with the break up . also, be smart & wise when choosing who to date . don't just chose a girl because you know she's putting out, those are the worst ones emotionally . pleaseeee be careful !

i hope i was of some type of help tonight . i just had to get that off my mind . i'm tired of watching girls get played or hearing my friends come to me with things like this . also, i've been in these same situations & i'm single now . .lol . what does that tell you ? so i'm just speaking from experience guys . be blessed . - peace . love . & lisha [ ♥ ] .

SONG OF THE DAY : - single - lil wayne [ ♥ ]