hate it or love it . . the underdog's on top .

been gone for a couple days . did you guys miss me ? .  . i've had a busy couple of days . friday night i went to our last football game for this year . it was a bittersweet feeling for everyone . we won, but we're not going to the playoffs for the first time since 2OO4 . but the boys played their hearts out (: i love you boys [ if any of you happen to be reading this, which i highly doubt ] . then, yesterday was christian's FIRST birthday party . time flies man, my aunt & i were talking & we definitely agreed this was the shortest year ever . he's grown into the cutest little person EVER & i dare you to say otherwise !

but on to the topic of this blog (: . i was given some advice from a guy the other day . . advice from guys about guys is the best advice by the way . . but this guy was telling me that guys actually like it when the girl makes the first move . he was also telling me that guys tend to have the same, exact insecurities us girls have which is sometimes why they don't make the move first .

but ladies remember : DON'T THROW YOURSELF ON THE GUY! it's not cute & that's a major turn off & it makes you look easy . which is definitely not good . . just let them know what's up, how you're feeling, etc . & go from there . . if they turn you down, then oh well . at least you can walk away knowing you tried, right ? right . well, that's all for now guys . . i'll shoot something else your way later tonight to make up for lost time (: - peace .  love . & lisha . [ ♥ ]

SONG OF THE DAY : break up to make up - jeremih ♥